Curious about women and courage, everyday courage or how to apply courageous leadership--this is the blog for you. No sensational stories, heroism or drama, just the understanding of how to apply courage at work or in your personal life. There is a direct correlation between your success quotient and your courage quotient. What would you do right now if you had "unlimited courage?" Do you have courage?
Identify Regret and Choose a New Response
Courage is not something we stumble upon as we round the corner of the cubicle at the office, but a practical internal resource—a portfolio of personal assets that can bolster your position in defining moments.
A woman I will call Emily, an art gallery owner, repeatedly relied on courage in her work. She moved from Colorado to California and back again in her quest for professional satisfaction. Recognizing the potential for failure, she remained true to her essence and refused to settle for less. Emily wielded courage action skills to forge her niche in the art world in spite of significant obstacles. She placed her commitment to the work she loved at the very center of her being.
Courage dictates that you love your work or you change it. This is what moves you through the mirage of mirrors. A great life has meaning. Emily lives a meaningful life because she has claimed the courage necessary to pursue meaningful work in spite of discouraging impediments.
As you learn to find courage in ordinary life, figure out what triggers the habitual behaviors of your old scripts and look for a matching regret. Identifying the underlying regret empowers you to choose a new response that leads to a more meaningful, fulfilling life. Mary Oliver says in her poem “When Death Comes,” “I don’t want to end up simply having visited this world.”
Are you a participant in your life or just an actor in a minor role? Are you tortured by regrets? David R. Hawkins, M.D., Ph.D. writes in The Eye of the I: “We change the world not by what we say or do but as a consequence of what we have become.”
Photo: Painted Hall of Mirrors series by Amanda Clyne
Sandra Ford Walston is known as The Courage Expertand innovator ofStuckThinking™. Featured on the speaker circuit as witty, provocative, concrete and insightful, she has sparked positive change in the lives of thousands of leaders each year. She found that there is a direct correlation between your success quotient and your courage quotient.
She is the internationally published author of bestseller COURAGE The Heart and Spirit of Every Woman, the follow-up book The COURAGE Difference at Work: A Unique Success Guide for Women (formerlySTUCK) and FACE IT! 12 Courageous Actions that Bring Success at Work and Beyond. All three books are on based 20 years of original courage research.
Sandra is certified in the Enneagram and MBTI® and she is a Newfield Network coach. Please visitwww.sandrawalston.com.