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I'm sure it's happened to you: You're in a tense team meeting trying to defend your position on a big project and start to feel yourself losing ground. Your voice gets louder. You talk over one of your colleagues and correct his point of view. He pushes back, so you go into overdrive to convince everyone you're right. It feels like an out of body experience — and in many ways it is. In terms of its neurochemistry, your brain has been hijacked.
In situations of high stress, fear or distrust, the hormone and neurotransmitter cortisol floods the brain. Executive...
Living with a chronic health problem can be awfully isolating. Even if you're the most social person, there's no one with whom you can share your daily challenges. You might think it would be easier if you could find someone who also has these challenges. But there's this -- the mutual sharing of health problems can lead to overload. Just ask any 85 year old living in an assisted living what it's like when everyone is in as bad shape as you and that's all anyone talks about!
But until you get to that point in life when the rest of the world seems to have finally...
7 BIG IDEAS for Regaining Power in the Workplace with Chronic Health Problems
1. Focus On What You Can Control. You may not be able to control the course of your illness, but you can take charge of your career direction and the choices you make. View this as a challenge to meet rather than an obstacle in the way.
2. Ignore The Nay Sayers. Common wisdom says that stress is bad and most work is stressful. Therefore, if your body is vulnerable, you should not work. But stress is not always negative. Unpleasant work or working with uncomfortable pressure can be bad...
You like your job, but your boss gives you a hard time. What can you do if your current boss stresses you out?
First, try to do more than what is expected from you at your current job. Instead of just doing what you are suppose do, try to go the extra mile. Try to get things done ahead of time and help out your co-workers. Your boss and co-workers will notice and give you more respect.
Struggling to stay at your new job while living with chronic health conditions?
Struggling to keep your job while living with a chronic health condition?
Then you might want to tune into Downton Abbey, Season 1, to see what to do and what to avoid.
Maybe they should make a series called, "Working and Living With Chronic Health Problems"? I'm doubtful the scriptwriters set out with this intention but they really nailed it with Mrs. Patmore and Mr. Bates.
Let's start with Bates. While interviewing for his new job as Valet to Lord Grantham, he really wants the job. Grantham, who seems eager to...